"Validation" . . . within ourselves

So yesterday . . . we spoke about the importance of . . . "positive energy" . . .

And to obtain that feeling . . . we must . . . encounter "validation" within "ourselves"!

So what exactly is . . . "self-validation"???

Well . . . it's the act of "accepting" our own "internal" experience . . . including our "thoughts" and "feelings"

And this in turn . . . means to "encourage ourselves" . . . and acknowledge our strengths, successes, progress and efforts

To "accept" our feelings . . . to treat ourselves with kindness . . . and to prioritize our needs . . .

But it also means . . . to accept our "limitations" . . . "flaws" . . . and "mistakes".

So why do we need validation???

Well . . . the human race actually "NEEDS" to be "validated" in our life "every day".

You see . . . "validation" . . . is the recognition or affirmation that a person or their feelings or opinion "needs" to feel valid . . . and therefore . . . "WORTHWHILE".

We ALL need "validation" of our "self-worth".

But many times . . . people miss the fact that "validation" . . . must come from within "FIRST" . . . before looking for acceptance from others.

This is what's happening in today's world.

Many of our young or young at heart are acting out . . . to get attention . . . to feel "validated" . . .

BUT . . . we're looking in the wrong place people . . .

"Validation" . . . needs to come from "WITHIN"

And when we look for this act of "validation" from others "FIRST" . . . "vulnerability" comes into play

And most humans . . . see this "vulnerability" . . . as a feeling of being easily hurt or attacked.

We associate "vulnerability" to the "emotions" we want to avoid such as . . fear, shame and uncertainty.

BUT . . . what we fail to "PULL" from "vulnerability" . . . is the "POWER" of "POSITIVE THINKING" and "POSITIVE ENERGY"

You see . . . "vulnerability" . . . is also the "birthplace" of joy, belonging, creativity, authenticity and LOVE!

And without "validation" of self love or POSITIVE "vulnerability" -

WE WILL CEASE TO EXIST PEOPLE!!!!!

So for those in this great country . . . that are so longingly looking for "VALIDATION" . . . please take a moment and look "WITHIN"

Unfortunately . . . we have become a society of "LOST SOULS" . . . looking for "acceptance" of our "self-worth".

It's not out there "lost souls" . . . it's found in your heart, your family values . . . your birthright and God's design.

And this is just one woman's opinion

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